Nobody wants to work hard for the wrong thing.
I support first-gen leaders and entrepreneurs who feel stuck between what they’ve built and what they actually want.
Hi, I’m Betty Chan
I'm an Authenticity Life Coach. Which means I help people stop performing their lives and start actually living them.
I used to believe that if I worked hard enough, adapted well enough, got it right enough, I'd finally feel like myself. I didn't. I just got better at pretending.
What I know now: when life feels off, when you're doing everything "right" and something still feels missing, you're not broken. You don't need a big overhaul. You need to notice what's been there all along.
For a lot of us, especially those who learned to succeed by overworking, masking, or putting everyone else first, that feeling of "off" is information. It's pointing to where you've fallen out of alignment with who you actually are. Authenticity isn't a luxury here. It's the only way back to yourself.
That's where I come in. Not to fix you, but to help you interpret what your body and mind are already trying to tell you through the frustrations, the quiet doubts, and the "should-I-ask-this" questions that never seem to go away.
When you understand what's actually true for you, you stop white-knuckling and start trusting yourself through the twists and turns in your work, your relationships, and your life.
Clear, Confident You
My clients don’t just reach their goals. (Hustle culture will make you believe that’s enough.)
Through my coaching, they discover a new way forward that honors every part of their life:
Feel confident about how they speak up, lead, and set boundaries
Get paid for work that fits their natural rhythm and skills
Weave joy and creativity back into their days to minimize burnout
Stop overthinking and start making decisions that feel worthwhile
Build trust in old and new relationships, even after deep ruptures
Feel deeply proud of who they are becoming
They don’t just feel clear about their direction.
They finally feel at home in their life.
W O R K I N G T O G E T H E R
Customized guidance to help you find clarity, momentum, and meaningful choices by reconnecting to your authenticity. No advice zone.
1-on-1 Coaching
Create trust in your organization with experiences that get to the heart of what your people really need to show up.
Speaking & Workshops
For busy, intentional people who want a time-saving way to reflect without the guilt and pressure of year-long planners.
Journals Stickers
W H A T C L I E N T S S A Y
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"I can finally enjoy my success, not just survive it. For years, I built other people's companies from the shadows, pushing myself until I tapped out. Betty helped me change the patterns that keep me overworking and under-enjoying my life. If you want clarity that sticks, Betty's the one.
- Johnny Nguyen (he/him)
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"Betty has such a grounding, yet expansive presence. She's empathetic, deeply thoughtful, and simultaneously no-nonsense (which is especially useful if you get stuck in overthinking loops). She has the knowledge, tools, and experience to hold space in exactly the way you need."
– Ashlee Sang (she/her)
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"I had so many important epiphanies during my time with Betty! She helped me land on my feet after a layoff by identifying the major blockers to my happiness. I'm grateful I can finally relieve my stress and make real progress."
– Brittany Robles (she/her)
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"I started coaching to work through some tangled moments in my new business. Betty helped me see that there wasn't one ‘right’ way to do it. If you are looking for a thoughtful coach that will make you feel seen and held - reach out to Betty!"
– Tanvi Mittal (she/her)
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"In our 6 months together, Betty got me to see the big picture. I went from 'how can I do more' to really understanding what I wanted to accomplish and how I could get rid of the distractions that got in the way. I highly recommend her!"
– Paul Lee (he/him)
S P E A K I N G + W O R K S H O P S
Betty brings honesty and heart to every stage—helping audiences see themselves clearly.
She has spoken and led workshops for Olly, Unilever, The Asian American Foundation, and LEAP on authentic leadership, emotionally intelligent communication, and turning gentleness into an everyday superpower.
You deserve this.
Take the first step and find out who you are becoming.